My neck is just super wide unfortunately. It's not fat and it's not even muscle actually, so there's not much I can do (this is actually a huge problem when I buy shirts, as I always need normal sized shirts but with huge collars, super annoying). On the plus side I guess I'd be super hard to strangle :P I've been thinking of getting the chain length adjusted, so there's still hope for us to be twinsies after all :)