Asexuality

[Celestia]

You may not realize it but you do give a preference to a guy over the others based on their looks. You don't give everybody a chance equally until you get to know them and form an emotional bond.

I agree with that. Their appearance isn’t what catches my attention at first, but I also can’t force attraction if it’s not there either.

What I am saying is that I don’t experience lust or any kind of sexual craving over someone simply by their physical appearance alone. The only time I’ve felt that way is after forming a bond with them.

[Anglo-Celtic]

The labels are a bit ridiculous imo. I thought it was normal too but out of my group of friends, I am the only one who feels that way.

I think that I have the "marriage version" of that. I have to have more than a sexual attraction to take things that far, but I refuse to use one of those terms to describe myself. ;-)

[Celestia]

I think that I have the "marriage version" of that. I have to have more than a sexual attraction to take things that far, but I refuse to use one of those terms to describe myself. ;-)

You and every other guy lol :-p

[joanna_38]

I feel partially at fault is because I'm slightly anatomically incorrect so it makes sex incredibly boring and not interesting to me. It is not that intriguing when you have to only do all the work and when they do it, you feel nothing.
But anything besides that doesn't include the indirect "classic" sex, i think is exciting. But the act itself i feel is incredibly overrated. I've even felt "broken" a lot of times because of those thoughts.

[Seya]

I agree with that. Their appearance isn’t what catches my attention at first, but I also can’t force attraction if it’s not there either.

What I am saying is that I don’t experience lust or any kind of sexual craving over someone simply by their physical appearance alone. The only time I’ve felt that way is after forming a bond with them.

I think all women are like this or at least the majority.

[Vyacheslav]

Am I asexual? Probably yes, there are more interesting things for me than sex, especially since I live in isolation from people and no one annoys me