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you need to go around, see places, to get to see people. make short trips, walk, go out to visit stores even if you don't need to buy something just to see people, to interact.
make a move only when you feel you like that person enough. also don't expect it will go from first shot (it can, but chances are she's in a relationship or not interested), treat it as training for the next encounter, for which you can improve your ways based on this experience. in case it becomes awkward or she's a bitch that acts like you offended her for approaching her to ask her out or for her number (there's girls like that as well), so even if you get in an embarrassing situation for a moment, by tomorrow she will anyway forget about it, and you will have other priorities as well.
easiest it'd be in a certain group, like a hobby group - while I was a student I was a member of a couple of associations, like old movie watchers or speakers of a certain language, and we had weekly or periodical gatherings and events and many people were getting together like that, meeting there (I didn't, as I met my gf elsewhere already, but I saw that around me many couples formed over there, in those groups)
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