If Raewald asked about his looks what would people say?

[Creoda]

Who is Raewald and why have you made tens of threads about this imaginary user?

[rajputprincess]

Who is Raewald and why have you made tens of threads about this imaginary user?

He is in love with Raewald

[Regnera]

He's handsome.

[Loki]

I mean bro you are in your 40s
Looking handsome in 40s is very hard.

Lol, no. I guess it depends on things like ethnic origin too. But 40's is better than 20's imo. 40, you're man, 20 you're still a baby.

With women it's different, though.

Men don't age better than women. That's cope.

Compare old guys with old woman. Objectively . They look equally good.
Most old guys have receding hairline

Only straight men think that men get better with age. Even most gay men don't think so

It is mostly cope

Nope, sorry. That's your opinion only. Which you are welcome to, of course. But most people would disagree.

[Loki]

Delusional. It's one of those things where being really in love with someone won't change how you view them, but ask 99% of women what they think of an average man at 30 and what they think of him at 60 and they'll all universally say he looked better at 30.

You are comparing apples and pears. He speaks of 40, not 60.

[Loki]

Who is Raewald and why have you made tens of threads about this imaginary user?

The user Rædwald

[Brás Garcia de Mascarenhas]

Your problem has nothing to do with your appearance. Sure, losing weight can help you feel more confident and healthy, but it's not at all what's stopped you from having a relationship with someone all these years. I think that if you were lean but had the same personality, it wouldn't be much different. You talk and gesture like a 13-year-old in a 40-year-old's body. Your way of expressing yourself sounds immature and inappropriate for someone in your age group and circles around puerile topics. You're in your forties but you spend your life dreaming about what you'll be when you "grow up", just like a child. A child wants to be an "astronaut" when they grow up or something like that, as it is normal for children to live in a world of illusions and irrealistic expectations and you are not much different: you daydream about having "this kind of body", "this kind of face", "this kind of wife", "I want to be a famous singer\actor" and so on when you grow up...while failing to realize that you're already a grown up. I hope I'm not being too harsh on you, because I also don't know to what extent your mental health influences your ability or lack of it to really make a change, but I would say that if you start acting like an adult, people will respect you more. More than any weight you might lose.

And this obsession with Raewald after all these years, even though he's practically inactive as a member, makes it seem to others observing from the outside that you're trapped and can't get out of the closet.

[tropicalslavic]

You are comparing apples and pears. He speaks of 40, not 60.

Women his age would probably find him cute if they weren't immediately made aware of his weird mental stuff, nonetheless.

[tropicalslavic]

The whole problem here is even debating his looks and age. We've seen pictures of him looking attractive at a healthy weight in his youth. He's not elderly, 40's is not wrinkled and worn out by any means. On paper, an Atlantid man with symmetrical facial features and wide shoulders is attractive to many women.

In reality, it's the autism. He needs some sort of therapy for the autism.

[BakersfieldChimp]

Men do age better and that's a fact. Mostly because they
get masculine looking with age

Once everybody hits forty, it is all downhill.

If anyone wahts to argue that, would you kindly present counter example of one who looked better in their forties and fifties than their twenties and thirties.