Moving to Kenya

[Tooting Carmen]

Of course not all black women are into white men, but the two that I am communicating with in particular are. Maybe that's why they claim they are into me.

There are Bulgarian girls that prefer black men, not many but they exist.

What I am sensing is that you have more than a little of this complex: https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.p...n/MightyWhitey

Forgive me if I am wrong, but it seems that you like the idea that (some) Kenyan women will worship you for your skin colour and (relative) wealth, rather than the relationship being one truly based on love, equality and mutual respect.

[Lioncourt]

Why aren't you exactly normal? That's not the idea you give off. Have you self-assessed yourself as "not normal" because you haven't had any success with relationships so far, or because you really do have a diagnosed problem? I mean, you're not the first or the last person who thinks they have relationship problems and insecurities. But if you keep on saying to yourself that nothing will have a different outcome, it's because it won't when you already have this defeatist and giving-up attitude. If this is causing you stress and anxiety, perhaps it's best to let it go than thrifting for a wife in the third world. I'm already predicting that if this whole Kenya thing doesn't go well is going to get you very down. Sometimes it's when you least expect it that the right person comes along.

Yes, I have been recently diagnosed. Obviously I will be disappointed if the Kenya thing doesn't work out but I am prepared for that and I have set clear boundaries of what I can accept and what not. I treat the Kenyan girl no different than I treated Bulgarian girls before her. I don't view her as easy, I don't view her as sex doll, and if I have clear signs that she only views me as a wallet or a ticket out of Africa, I will just block her.

[Lioncourt]

What I am sensing is that you have more than a little of this complex: https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.p...n/MightyWhitey

Forgive me if I am wrong, but it seems that you like the idea that (some) Kenyan women will worship you for your skin colour and (relative) wealth, rather than the relationship being one truly based on love, equality and mutual respect.

Just read my previous comments. I told her to go find a Kenyan guy if she is after young and handsome men or after older German or American if she wants money and life in a rich country. I do not plan to abuse her just because if she comes, she won't have anywhere to go. I just want a woman to start a family with, and as I have failed in Bulgaria, I try a place where my value would make me stand out a bit - but I don't want to use that in a negative way.

[Tooting Carmen]

Just read my previous comments. I told her to go find a Kenyan guy if she is after young and handsome men or after older German or American if she wants money and life in a rich country. I do not plan to abuse her just because if she comes, she won't have anywhere to go. I just want a woman to start a family with, and as I have failed in Bulgaria, I try a place where my value would make me stand out a bit - but I don't want to use that in a negative way.

At the end of the day, it is your life and your choices. Just beware of the dangers of the "grass is always greener on the other side" syndrome, especially regarding a country that is as poverty-stricken, high-crime and dysfunctional as Kenya is in many ways. (Neighbouring Tanzania, while poorer, seems to be a lot more peaceful).

[Brás Garcia de Mascarenhas]

Yes, I have been recently diagnosed. Obviously I will be disappointed if the Kenya thing doesn't work out but I am prepared for that and I have set clear boundaries of what I can accept and what not. I treat the Kenyan girl no different than I treated Bulgarian girls before her. I don't view her as easy, I don't view her as sex doll, and if I have clear signs that she only views me as a wallet or a ticket out of Africa, I will just block her.

Well, if you really do have a diagnosed problem, then I'm not really the best person to advise or judge you, as I'm not familiar with those issues. But good luck.

[Lioncourt]

At the end of the day, it is your life and your choices. Just beware of the dangers of the "grass is always greener on the other side" syndrome, especially regarding a country that is as poverty-stricken, high-crime and dysfunctional as Kenya is in many ways. (Neighbouring Tanzania, while poorer, seems to be a lot more peaceful).

Well I don't plan to live in Kenya, the only visit that may happen is when I go to meet her family (and I won't be alone). If they kill me with spears, then I am just unlucky.

By the way she is Nilotic, Nilotics are considered to be among the best looking Africans but also among the proudest and wildest.

[Comealongwithme]

Going to Kenya to get a woman? Damn.

E1b1b's input would've been really valuable in threads like these, RIP to that dude.

[Lioncourt]

Well, if you really do have a diagnosed problem, then I'm not really the best person to advise or judge you, as I'm not familiar with those issues. But good luck.

Yes, I'm a mild aspie, I have suspected it for a long time.

[Incal]

What I am sensing is that you have more than a little of this complex: https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.p...n/MightyWhitey

Forgive me if I am wrong, but it seems that you like the idea that (some) Kenyan women will worship you for your skin colour and (relative) wealth, rather than the relationship being one truly based on love, equality and mutual respect.

LMAO

[Victor]

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