If I can't be handsome, I feel I don't want to live anymore

[Richmondbread]

I've answered the question and I've repeatedly stated that it's not your face, it's your autism.

I know people use autism as an insult, I am referring to the diagnosis that is on your medical record, which affects how you see, relate to, and interact with other human beings.

That is what people tend to have a problem with.

But you said I was physically unappealing like most people.

[BakersfieldChimp]

IMO this guy is ugly but he is considered handsome

Just stop. Be happy you are not unattractive except for your weight.
I can throw a tantrum about not being six foot four and it will never make me six foot four.

[tropicalslavic]

But you said I was physically unappealing like most people.

I think you're reading into what I said more negatively than it was meant.

You are an ordinary person. I am an ordinary person. Pretty much everyone in this website is an ordinary person. None of us are world famous models or superstars. We were not born into a life of privilege with unusually good looks, intellect, etc. and most of us are completely fine with this and don't even think about it. For an ordinary person, some people will be attracted to us and others not. We don't spend our entire lives obsessing over the fact that we are not world famous models who turn every head when we walk into a public space. We marry other ordinary people, ones that we find striking and pleasant and charismatic, and we have happy ordinary lives.

Accept that you are like 99% of humans in this regard.

[Annihilus]

Please someone help? What do I need to do to fix my face so it becomes handsome?

go suck a dick RB

[Richmondbread]

I think you're reading into what I said more negatively than it was meant.

You are an ordinary person. I am an ordinary person. Pretty much everyone in this website is an ordinary person. None of us are world famous models or superstars. We were not born into a life of privilege with unusually good looks, intellect, etc. and most of us are completely fine with this and don't even think about it. For an ordinary person, some people will be attracted to us and others not. We don't spend our entire lives obsessing over the fact that we are not world famous models who turn every head when we walk into a public space. We marry other ordinary people, ones that we find striking and pleasant and charismatic, and we have happy ordinary lives.

Accept that you are like 99% of humans in this regard.

I don't want to look like Gandy. I just want to be considered handsome.

[BakersfieldChimp]

I think you're reading into what I said more negatively than it was meant.

You are an ordinary person. I am an ordinary person. Pretty much everyone in this website is an ordinary person. None of us are world famous models or superstars. We were not born into a life of privilege with unusually good looks, intellect, etc. and most of us are completely fine with this and don't even think about it. For an ordinary person, some people will be attracted to us and others not. We don't spend our entire lives obsessing over the fact that we are not world famous models who turn every head when we walk into a public space. We marry other ordinary people, ones that we find striking and pleasant and charismatic, and we have happy ordinary lives.

Accept that you are like 99% of humans in this regard.

We all want to believe we are special individual snowflakes.
However, we are as unique as a blade of grass.

[tropicalslavic]

I don't want to look like Gandy. I just want to be considered handsome.

Well, most people are average. Meaning, handsome/beautiful to some and not to others.

You should just accept that, instead of spending your entire life bitter about not having more.

Look on the bright side. You are not physically deformed, you are not a burn victim, you are not a 600 lb life patient.

You look the way a lot of ordinary, happily married men do in their 40's. The difference is that those men are not severely autistic.

[Incal]

Seriously.

This dude is more shallow than even the plastic surgery obsessed bimbos I'm related to.

He's like the male version of Laly. An autistic thing I assume.

[Anglo-Celtic]

Well, son. I felt that way when I had a baby face in college, and the girls called me Doogie Howser, so you see, son, we all have our own unique situations that we exaggerate when we're kids, but, you see, my boy, it won't add up to a hill of beans when we get older and shake our heads at the silly stuff that bothered us when we were youngsters, so help your mom with dinner; she's had a hard day. (channeling my wise dad from some show from 1995).

[Colonel Frank Grimes]

IMO this guy is ugly but he is considered handsome

The dude looks like a total bro. He looks like the type of guy if you entered the room he'd be chilling on the couch and be like, "Sup, bro?! Where you been? Haven't seen you in a while. Everything good?"

In contrast to you badgering everyone if you look handsome, which leaves everyone thinking you're fruity and not a bro.