Any tips to start a relationship with anyone?

[Nurzat]

you need to go around, see places, to get to see people. make short trips, walk, go out to visit stores even if you don't need to buy something just to see people, to interact.

make a move only when you feel you like that person enough. also don't expect it will go from first shot (it can, but chances are she's in a relationship or not interested), treat it as training for the next encounter, for which you can improve your ways based on this experience. in case it becomes awkward or she's a bitch that acts like you offended her for approaching her to ask her out or for her number (there's girls like that as well), so even if you get in an embarrassing situation for a moment, by tomorrow she will anyway forget about it, and you will have other priorities as well.

easiest it'd be in a certain group, like a hobby group - while I was a student I was a member of a couple of associations, like old movie watchers or speakers of a certain language, and we had weekly or periodical gatherings and events and many people were getting together like that, meeting there (I didn't, as I met my gf elsewhere already, but I saw that around me many couples formed over there, in those groups)

[Voskos]

wear good and expensive clothes. nothing more to add.

[CosmoLady]

Hi, i was thinking that i could finally try again to be in a relationship (might be somewhat helpful for me too) but the last time i've been in one was 5 years ago, i don't how can start or seek for one i'm afraid to say.

I was hoping for anyone to share any tips, i don't know any other place where i can ask about this.


Thanks in advance.

edit: i'm not really very interested on trying dating apps.

You need to go out and socialise with people as much as possible,

for practice, to improve your smile, social skills, behaviour, confidence, assertiveness!

And improve your appearance, hygiene, grooming as much as possible, be the best version of yourself.

You never know when you will meet someone interesting, it may be completely unexpected.

If you want to start conversation with a girl,
try complimenting her about her hairstyle or a specific fashion accessory or item of clothing that you notice.

For an interesting conversation, talk about hobbies and travels (hers and yours)

Maybe you can also get involved with some charitable activities, cultural activities, or hobbies that allow you to meet young women?

Great advice below, I agree with concerts, festivals, bars, beach clubs, or restaurant bars with many singles.

Definitely try at concerts, festivals or bars. Otherwise, like mentioned here before, just be yourself, there's definitely a market there for guys like you.

you need to go around, see places, to get to see people. make short trips, walk, go out to visit stores even if you don't need to buy something just to see people, to interact.

make a move only when you feel you like that person enough. also don't expect it will go from first shot (it can, but chances are she's in a relationship or not interested), treat it as training for the next encounter, for which you can improve your ways based on this experience. in case it becomes awkward or she's a bitch that acts like you offended her for approaching her to ask her out or for her number (there's girls like that as well), so even if you get in an embarrassing situation for a moment, by tomorrow she will anyway forget about it, and you will have other priorities as well.

easiest it'd be in a certain group, like a hobby group - while I was a student I was a member of a couple of associations, like old movie watchers or speakers of a certain language, and we had weekly or periodical gatherings and events and many people were getting together like that, meeting there (I didn't, as I met my gf elsewhere already, but I saw that around me many couples formed over there, in those groups)

[Beowulf]

You need to go out and socialise with people as much as possible,

for practice, to improve your smile, social skills, behaviour, confidence, assertiveness!

And improve your appearance, hygiene, grooming as much as possible, be the best version of yourself.

You never know when you will meet someone interesting, it may be completely unexpected.

If you want to start conversation with a girl,
try complimenting her about her hairstyle or a specific item of clothing or fashion accessory that you notice.

For an interesting conversation, talk about hobbies and travels (yours or hers)

Maybe you can also get involved with some charitable activities, cultural activities, or hobbies that allow you to meet young women?

Great advice below, I agree with concerts, festivals, bars, beach clubs, or restaurant bars with many singles.

Thanks!

[Beowulf]

Update:


i have been trying to go more outside even if i don't like it, like walking around my place or going shopping and i'm trying to keep a hygiene routine.

[Anatolya]

Update:


i have been trying to go more outside even if i don't like it, like walking around my place or going shopping and i'm trying to keep a hygiene routine.

Sounds like you're an introvert. I'd suggest you to stay away from extroverted types if you want someone you can share things in a long run so spend your time in somewhere like libraries, museums etc. instead of shopping malls, that'd increase your chance to come across with people you'd be compatible with.

[Beowulf]

Sounds like you're an introvert. I'd suggest you to stay away from extroverted types if you want someone you can share things in a long run so spend your time in somewhere like libraries, museums etc. instead of shopping malls, that'd increase your chance to come across with people you'd be compatible with.

I didn't went to the mall, i don't like going alone there, i was just trying with the shops near me in my town or neighbouring places and such.

Thanks for your input btw i appreciate it!

[Insuperable]

Just fuck them right in the pussy