If I can't be handsome, I feel I don't want to live anymore

[Petalpusher]

Did I police anyone? Others are free to use it, it just makes me uncomfortable to speak like that myself. I feel like I can say I am attracted or not attracted to someone in a more polite way. I couldn't care less how you say it, unless you go around harassing people. You are really projecting here.

You said "this number scale crap is only a problem for people who live on the internet". Happens that we are discussing on the internet right now. The point was just that he is not attractive enough to overcome his behavior (he would need a 10 at this point). Below 7 was a random number.

Women dislike this benign rating thing and try to shame it because deep down they know their main value is their look and they think it will define their value as a person, more so than even men judge them based on look alone. It's understandable but it has nothing to do with being polite or more "human" to celebrities on a random forum, some even get triggered by the number we give them. Big projections, we don't give ratings in threads that seriously.

[tropicalslavic]

You said "this number scale crap is only a problem for people who live on the internet". Happens that we are discussing on the internet right now. The point was just that he is not attractive enough to overcome his behavior (he would need a 10 at this point). Below 7 was a random number.

Women dislike this benign rating thing and try to shame it because deep down they know their main value is their look and they think it will define their value as a person, more so than even men judge them based on look alone. It's understandable but it has nothing to do with being polite or more "human" to celebrities on a random forum, some even get triggered by the number we give them. Big projections, we don't give ratings in threads that seriously.

Again, projecting - I'm happily married and have never given a shit about my appearance beyond being presentable. In fact, that's the difference I'm talking about, the fact that only insecure and often terminally online people spend this much time thinking about anyone's appearance, be it their own or other people's. I go on here for my entertainment but for others, like Meade, it seems to be a genuine lifeline. And he is obsessed. Obsessed beyond what any healthy human being could possibly be with this concept of handsomeness and whether or not he fits into it.

He was quite attractive as a thin 22 year old. I would probably be interested until he opened his mouth. And even making this about appearance, number scales or politely worded or otherwise, is detracting from the fact that the primary issue is his severe psychological disorder.

[Sylvanas]

... deep down they know their main value is their look and they think it will define their value as a person.

My main value is not the look and I don't think it defines my value as a person.

[tropicalslavic]

My main value is not the look and I don't think it defines my value as a person.

It's just typical red pill projection. I find it quite funny when they project it onto me, a woman who gets confused for a butch lesbian and didn't even wear makeup for her wedding. They should come pet my leg hair. Yeah man I'm real obsessed with how I look. Lol

[Petalpusher]

My main value is not the look and I don't think it defines my value as a person.

Great for you. Rb also believes he s handsome, then he doubts, then he s sure he's handsome.

It's just typical red pill projection. I find it quite funny when they project it onto me, a woman who gets confused for a butch lesbian and didn't even wear makeup for her wedding. They should come pet my leg hair. Yeah man I'm real obsessed with how I look. Lol

Makes a lot more sense now. I thought you were inmostlight, i was waiting for the 3rd persona. Now im very disappointed.

[tropicalslavic]

Makes a lot more sense now. I thought you were inmostlight, i was waiting for the 3rd persona. Now im very disapointed.

Who?

[Sylvanas]

Great for you. Rb also believes he s handsome, then he doubts, then he s sure he's handsome.

Rb also what? I can't relate

[Petalpusher]

Rb also what? I can't relate

Everybody has a certain level of awareness about what people think of them, look or else. But it gets better with age. Except for RB, it seems to get worse, being a 40y old virgin might do that.

[Sylvanas]

Everybody has a certain level of awareness about what people think of them, look or else. But it gets better with age. Except for RB, it seems to get worse, being a 40y old virgin might do that.

Aha....yeah, we are aware, attractive people get attention without asking for that. Insecurity and bad social skills or sociopathy annihilate all that very quick.

[Lioncourt]

In general, when somebody who is not normal repetitively complaints and seeks attention, people flock to their rants and give them meaningless advice because this makes them feel better about themselves.